Dating much older person
He has great dress sense He’s had years to find his style and he’s used them wisely. You had them on posters up on your wall and now you’re sitting opposite a lookalike at dinner. He doesn’t make a big deal out of his dating skills ‘It’s your turn to plan a date’… You’re free to enjoy each others’ company without such expectations of the other person.
They’re usually mid-forties with the years etched on their chiselled faces. He can afford to take you places Not only does he know where to take you but he has the means to do so. Neither of you are hoping to hit a milestone You’re years off kids and he’s been and done marriage.
Because he had a reluctance to grow up, he wanted to stay young in as many ways as possible.
The next time we ran into each other was when I went to interview for a job in the ski resort's lift department, which he happened to be in charge of. I think he can't really find a woman to keep up with him, even in his own age group. The man I dated was essentially an 18-year-old himself when it came to maturity.
He’s old enough to be your dad and you would never be able to introduce him to your immature friends or horrified parents. You look a bit older than your years; he looks a bit younger The pair of you hit a sweet spot where you just about get away with being a couple in public without attracting judgemental stares. He needs no pointers or subtle hints about what he should be wearing. He treats you like a lady An older gentleman is incredibly sexy. A man with experience knows not to remind you of all the effort he made last weekend. His mates don’t come into it You see each other when you’re both willing and available and all the attention is on you. He teaches you things He’s like an encyclopaedia of the world. He has wonderful snippets of trivia to contribute to almost every conversation. He appreciates every inch of your youth Things that boys take for granted he notices and marvels at for hours. He loves your lust for life He thrives on your spontaneity and fearlessness. It’s clearer and easier than many of your previous relationships.
But if he ticks more than six of the following boxes, he may well be a keeper. His friends are older grown-ups like him and he considers them far less interesting than you. He drives a great car / rides a Vespa Stylish older guys can get away with a trendy bike just as much as young ones. He loves your face, your hair, your body, considers you some sort of goddess.
My friend (who was my age and in high school with me) worked at a ski resort near us. He's always been attracted to a person's personality. He actually thought I was older than I am, and both his wives were close to him in age.
Young adult women typically have more of a need for connection.
While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.
Before I get into the real nitty gritty, though, a few caveats.
First, being attracted to older guys is completely and totally normal.